Is my dispute suitable for mediation?
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Mediation can help in many everyday disagreements, but not all of them. These questions may help you think about whether it could be a good option for you.
Signs mediation may help
- Everyone involved is willing to talk, even if it is difficult.
- People want to keep, or at least manage, an ongoing relationship, such as between family members, neighbours or colleagues.
- Each person can speak freely and make their own decisions without pressure.
- The issue is about finding a practical way forward.
When mediation may not be suitable
- There is violence, threats, intimidation or coercion.
- Someone is afraid of the other person, or cannot speak freely.
- There is a serious imbalance of power that a neutral process cannot safely manage.
- Someone urgently needs legal protection, or a formal court decision is required.
- A crime may have been committed.
If you are unsure
It is fine not to know. A qualified legal professional can advise on your specific situation. If your safety is at risk, please seek emergency or protection support first.